It’s the ultimate love-hate relationship.  Courtney Love versus Marilyn "We Love Hate" Manson. Do the two rock heavyweights actually hate each other, or have the banter and barbs that they have traded in the media been nothing more than a well-planned ploy to generate attention?   Either way, it has worked in piquing the interest of the public.  The sell-out crowd at the Marilyn Manson/Hole concert at the Arrowhead Pond of Anaheim on Saturday seemed to be as interested in hearing what the parties were going to say as they were in the music.  They weren’t disappointed.  The night’s antics contained more jabs than Saturdays’ other main event: the Evander Holyfield-Lennox Lewis heavyweight title fight.